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10 Ways Inner Work Can Bring Peace and Purpose to Your Life
When was the last time you did outer work? Outer work may involve consistent exercise, proper nutrition, and quality sleep. These healthy lifestyle factors address the physical elements of existence. However, there are also emotional, psychological, and spiritual aspects to consider. So, when was the last time you did inner work? Inner Work The phrase “inner work” might initially deter some people since it conjures images of mystical trances or therapies such as hypnotism. The thought of doing “work” on one’s personality and psyche might be a tough sell for some. Though it may feel uncomfortable at first, inner work can bring about insight, inspiration, and personal growth. Inner work is frequently overlooked in daily life. Perhaps this is because it’s often easier to evaluate physical results than emotional or psychological progress. Also, in a society preoccupied with physical appearance, outer work typically takes precedence over inner work in daily routines. At its core, inner work is the process of getting to know yourself. It’s a form of introspective self-care where you can help yourself let go of harmful attachments, habits, people, and thoughts. Negative Thoughts Beliefs are powerful. Sadly, it’s common for people to believe things about themselves that just aren’t true. The trouble with negative thinking is that it can distort perceptions of reality. When left unchecked, negative self-talk can create serious self-esteem and mood problems. Have you ever had a limiting belief such as, “I’ll never be good enough?” When these thoughts occur, challenge them with questions like, “Is that really true?” Talking back to negative thoughts can help you retrain your brain, which will allow you to focus on the positive and leave the past where it is. Overcoming negative self-talk is just one of many types of inner work you can do. Here are some helpful ways for you to become more mindful of your inner life… 10 Ways Inner Work Can Bring Peace & Purpose to Your Life 1. Just Breathe Relaxation techniques can help you gain better control over stress and worry. Deep breathing is an effective therapy that can be done anywhere, anytime! Take deep breaths and let your mind and body start to relax. A simple exercise to reduce stress is breathe in for 8 seconds; hold it for 8 seconds; breathe out for 8 seconds, and then hold it for 8 seconds. Repeat 4 times. Try it. You should feel more focused and relaxed almost immediately. 2. One-Page Miracle Clear and focused objectives are essential to achieving goals. The One-Page Miracle is a powerful exercise that can make a dramatic difference in your life. Here are the simple steps: On a piece of paper, write down the specific goals for each area of your life, including your health (physical, emotional, and spiritual), relationships, work/school, and finances. Post it where you’ll see it every day. Ask yourself, “Is my behavior today getting me what I want?” Focusing on what’s important to you daily may make it easier for you to attain your goals. 3. Soothing Tunes Listening to music raises dopamine levels, which can increase pleasurable feelings, improve mood, boost energy, and help with focus and concentration. Remaining in a relaxed state of mind is easier to accomplish when you have a happy tune running through your head. Listen to brain enhancing music specifically composed to boost mood, gratitude, motivation, and inspiration. 4. Visit a Haven Choose a haven – a place where you feel comfortable and that you can imagine with all your senses. If it’s the beach, visualize the ocean, feel the sand between your toes, and the warm sun on your skin. Your haven can be any real or imaginary place where you’d like to spend time. During each session, choose one goal to work on. Stay with that goal until you can imagine yourself reaching it, going through each of the steps required to attain it. Begin to envision yourself not as you are, but as you want to be. Spend at least 20 minutes a day on this refueling, life-changing exercise. You might be amazed at the results. 5. Practice Mindfulness One of the best ways to achieve a state of calm is with mindfulness. Well-designed human studies show that daily mindfulness can help improve your brain.¹ Yoga, tai chi, and other mindfulness exercises can help reduce anxious and depressive thoughts and increase focus. Many people think that yoga is just stretching. While stretching is certainly involved, yoga can help decrease stress. As with exercise, start with short periods of 5 or 10 minutes and work your way into longer sessions. 6. Write It Down The process of journaling gives stressful thoughts a place to live other than your brain. Once those concerns have been expressed, they often lose their intensity and urgency, which will help you mentally relax. Writing in your journal 10 minutes before you go to bed can help relieve the worries of the day and put you in a restful state of mind. 7. Strong Connections Social connections can significantly affect your brain,² mood, and overall well-being. Building and maintaining healthy relationships may help you feel understood and cared for. When you care for others and feel cared for, your brain releases oxytocin, the “bonding” hormone, which can counteract some of the negative effects of stress. The health habits of the people you spend time with can have a dramatic impact on your own health. Surround yourself with people who are happy, upbeat, kind, and who challenge you to be the best version of yourself. 8. Practice Gratitude Did you know that practicing gratitude actually makes your mind work better? People who express gratitude on a regular basis are healthier, more optimistic, make more progress toward their goals, have a greater sense of well-being, and are more helpful to others. Write down three things you’re grateful for every day. Then, experience the joy that gratitude can bring. 9. Daily Meditation Make time for yourself every day. Taking breaks for meditation and relaxation provides benefits for both your physical and mental health. Spending just 15 minutes alone may refresh your mind. Clearing your mind and slowing your breathing can help restore inner calm. Repeating simple words like “May I be safe and secure” can increase positive emotions and decrease negative ones. Loving Kindness Meditations (LKM) can reduce pain and improve other mental health challenges. 10. Reach Out for Help Though isolating yourself during tough times may feel like the safest option, closing yourself off from the world can intensify negative feelings. Resist the urge to shut out the individuals who can offer you encouragement and support. Reach out to friends and family and let them know when you’re emotionally overwhelmed. Seek professional help if necessary, but don’t fight your battles alone. Find Your Quiet Place A foundational element of inner work is seclusion. To clear your mind and attain a peaceful state, it’s important to shut out external distractions. This includes turning off TVs, cell phones, and other devices. Also, it’s important to get away from loud traffic, noisy neighbors, or screaming kids. It might be best to find a place of solitude away from your home, at a park or other outdoor area. Inner work can be a journey of self-discovery that allows you to look at your life honestly and objectively. There may be highs and lows along the way, but don’t give up. Many have found this process to be freeing and rewarding...even life-changing. You may find that the results are well worth the investment, so set aside some time to focus on yourself today. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients so you can do the things you love. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Khoury, B., Lecomte, T., Fortin, G., Masse, M., Therien, P., Bouchard, V., Chapleau, M.-A., Paquin, K., & Hofmann, S. G. (2013). Mindfulness-based therapy: A comprehensive meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 33(6), 763–771. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2013.05.005 2. Holt-Lunstad, J. (2024). Social connection as a critical factor for mental and physical health: Evidence, trends, challenges, and future implications. World Psychiatry, 23(3), 312–332. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.21224
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5 of the Best Ways to Control Your ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts)
Your thoughts are powerful! They can have a profound effect on the way you feel, behave, and interact with others. Are Your Thoughts Positive or Negative? Positive Thinking When you have a positive thought or feel happy, the stress hormone cortisol decreases and the brain produces the neurotransmitter serotonin, which creates a feeling of well-being. Embracing positive, accurate thoughts can help you make better choices, which can lead to improved mental and physical health. Negative Thinking Habitual, negative self-talk¹ can train the brain to see things pessimistically. When left unchecked, negative thinking can distort perceptions of reality. Negative thinking can effectively rewrite your brain’s neural networks, reinforcing pathways that make it more likely you’ll continue seeing the glass as half empty. Additionally, having negative thoughts can reduce activity in the area of the brain involved with self-control, judgment, and planning, which can lead to poor decisions. This pattern of negative thinking can initiate a downward spiral of mood and behavioral issues, which can have a detrimental effect on your job, relationships, and every area of your life. Automatic Negative Thoughts A term coined by Dr. Daniel Amen, automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) can cause your brain to release chemicals able to negatively affect every cell in your body and make you feel bad. The opposite is also true – positive, happy, hopeful thoughts release chemicals that can help you feel good. Types of ANTs ANTs generally fall into one of these nine categories: [wc_box color="inverse" text_align="left" margin_top="" margin_bottom="" class=""] “All or Nothing” Thinking – Thoughts that are all good or all bad. “Always” Thinking – Thinking in words like always, never, no one, everyone, every time, everything. Focusing on the Negative – Only seeing the bad in a situation. Fortune Telling – Predicting the worst possible outcome to a situation with little or no evidence for it. Mind Reading – Believing that you know what another person is thinking even though they haven’t told you. Thinking with Your Feelings – Believing negative feelings without questioning them. Guilt Beatings – Thinking in words like should, must, ought, or have to. Labeling – Attaching a negative label to yourself or someone else. Blame – Blaming someone else for your problems. [/wc_box] Challenge Your ANTs Based on a method developed by bestselling author and speaker Byron Katie, called the Work, Dr. Amen recommends writing down any bothersome, worrisome, or negative thoughts, then challenging your ANTs by asking these 4 questions: Is it (the negative thought) true? Can I absolutely know that it is true? How do I react when I think that thought? Who would I be without that thought? Or, how would I feel if I didn’t have that thought? Whenever an ANT enters your mind, write it down. Then ask these 4 questions to challenge the ANTs. Having cleared your mind of negative thoughts, you should feel more positive and better able to meet life’s challenges soon after completing this exercise. Exterminate the ANTs It’s vitally important to exterminate the ANTs that can steal your happiness. Whenever you feel sad, mad, nervous, or stressed, write down what you’re thinking and then exterminate that ANT. Use these 2 helpful tips to exterminate your ANTs: When an ANT enters your mind, train yourself to recognize its type and write it down. Talk back to the ANT – this takes away its power so you can gain control over your mood and feel better. After exterminating your ANTs, it’s important to get into a regular habit of challenging negative thoughts and focusing on positive ones. Here are some of the best strategies for retraining the way you think… 5 of the Best Ways to Avoid Automatic Negative Thoughts 1. Focus On Self-care Practice good self-care with brain-healthy habits such as exercising, maintaining a healthy diet, meditating, getting quality sleep, and challenging negative thoughts. Your daily health routine is one of the best things you can do to help your overall wellness. 2. Write It Down The process of journaling gives stressful or negative thoughts another place they can live besides your brain. Once those thoughts have been expressed, they often lose their intensity and urgency, which will allow you to mentally relax. Writing in your journal 10 minutes before you go to bed can help release the stresses of the day and put you in a restful state of mind. 3. Spend Time Alone Spending just 15 minutes alone, without distractions, may help clear your mind and provide benefits for both your physical and mental health. Repeating simple words like “May I be safe and secure” can increase positive thoughts and emotions and decrease negative ones. Such Loving Kindness Meditations can help reduce pain and improve other mental health concerns. 4. Visit a Haven Choose a haven – a place where you feel comfortable and that you can imagine with all your senses. If it’s the beach, visualize the ocean, feel the sand between your toes, and the warm sun on your skin. Spend at least 20 minutes a day on this refueling, life-changing exercise, and you may find that your thoughts and outlook are more positive. 5. Practice Gratitude Write down five things you’re grateful for every day. Focusing on the things you’re thankful for can help calm the deep limbic (emotional) areas of your brain. People who express gratitude on a regular basis tend to be healthier, more optimistic, make more progress toward their goals, have a greater sense of well-being,² and are more helpful to others. Control Your Thoughts When you stop believing every negative, fearful, and harmful thought you have, you can start to regain control of your thoughts…and life. With practice, your thinking can become more positive, which can help improve your emotional health. Try this powerful exercise to exterminate your automatic negative thoughts today! At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Kim, J., Kwon, J. H., Kim, J., Kim, E. J., Kim, H. E., Kyeong, S., & Kim, J.-J. (2021). The effects of positive or negative self-talk on the alteration of brain functional connectivity by performing cognitive tasks. Scientific Reports, 11(1), 14873. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-021-94328-9 2. Jackowska, M., Brown, J., Ronaldson, A., & Steptoe, A. (2016). The impact of a brief gratitude intervention on subjective well-being, biology and sleep. Journal of Health Psychology, 21(10), 2207–2217. https://doi.org/10.1177/1359105315572455
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This Is What You Need to Know About EMDR Therapy!
Are you looking to overcome past traumas and break free from limiting beliefs? One treatment that might help is Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). From possible benefits to potential drawbacks, here’s what you need to know about EMDR therapy and how it might be able to help you. What is EMDR Therapy? EMDR therapy was developed by psychologist Dr. Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s and is a scientifically proven method for treating traumatic events, negative beliefs, difficult emotions, and other distressing psychological experiences. It has gained popularity as an effective treatment for various mental health issues including psychological or emotional trauma, mood issues, and addiction. How Does EMDR Work? EMDR therapy differs from traditional talk therapy in that it doesn’t solely rely on verbal communication between the therapist and client. Instead, it uses bilateral stimulation techniques such as eye movements, hand taps, or auditory tones to stimulate both sides of the brain while an individual recalls traumatic events or distressing memories. This process helps to integrate unresolved emotions and beliefs associated with these memories into more adaptive thoughts. This therapy involves identifying the target memory or distressing experience. Once the traumatic event is identified, the therapist asks the client to recall specific details of this experience while simultaneously triggering bilateral stimulation. The goal of this process is to activate traumatic memories while keeping the body in a state of relaxation through rhythmic movement. This allows clients to safely process repressed emotions and negative self-perceptions related to their past experiences. As therapy continues, clients are encouraged to process new thoughts or insights before moving on to other traumatic memories or issues in subsequent sessions. This repetition can help individuals by reducing the negative thoughts or sensations associated with a traumatic event. Part of what makes EMDR an effective therapy is that it follows an eight-phase protocol… 8 Phases of EMDR Therapy Phase 1: History and Treatment Plan The therapist will review your clinical history and discuss the reasons you’re seeking treatment. Then the therapist will help you identify specific memories to target, and have you rate your level of distress caused by them. From there, a treatment plan will be created. Phase 2: Preparation The therapist will use one of several techniques to help you relax and cope with any emotional reactions that may arise during treatment, and make sure you feel emotionally safe before proceeding. The therapist will also let you know that you can stop the process any time you feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed. Phase 3: Assessment During this portion of therapy, you’ll be directed to identify three things associated with the targeted memory: a visual image related to the memory a negative belief about yourself that the memory triggers your emotional reactions and/or any physical sensations associated with the memory The therapist will also ask you to choose a positive belief about yourself within the context of the distressing memory, even if it isn’t a belief you fully accept at this moment. Phase 4: Desensitization As you hold the image from the memory in mind, the EMDR processing begins. After the therapist has done the hand movements (or one of the other types of brain stimulation), you’ll be given the opportunity to share your thoughts. Then you may either resume processing that memory or begin processing another one. Phase 5: Installation Here you replace the negative belief you had about yourself with a positive affirmation. For example, a victim of assault may change their beliefs from “I am powerless” to “I am in control.” Phase 6: Body Scan During this phase, your therapist will work with you to resolve any remaining physical tension or bodily sensations related to the memory. Phase 7: Closure The therapist will provide you with strategies to help you handle any distressing emotions that may come up between sessions. They also may recommend that you write down those thoughts or emotions in a journal so that you can share them in your next session. Phase 8: Re-evaluation At the end of each session, the therapist will assess your progress and adjust your treatment plan as needed. Advantages of EMDR Therapy One significant advantage of EMDR therapy over traditional talk therapy is the speed at which it can yield results. While traditional therapy may take months or even years to show improvements, studies¹ have shown that EMDR can help provide relief from emotional or psychological trauma after only a few sessions. Also, EMDR therapy has been found highly effective in treating a wide range of mental health issues and is especially useful for individuals who have difficulty articulating their thoughts and feelings. It also can foster a greater sense of empowerment as clients are actively involved in the process. EMDR FAQ [wc_box color="inverse" text_align="left" margin_top="" margin_bottom="" class=""] Who can benefit from EMDR therapy? EMDR therapy may be effective for individuals who have experienced various forms of trauma, including childhood abuse, sexual assault, accidents, and natural disasters. It also can be helpful for those who struggle with phobias, grief, or other emotional distress. Is EMDR therapy evidence-based? Yes. Multiple research studies² have demonstrated its effectiveness in treating trauma-related symptoms. EMDR has been recognized as an evidence-based treatment by organizations such as the American Psychological Association (APA), Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), Department of Defense (DOD), World Health Organization (WHO), and many others. How long does it take to see results from EMDR therapy? The number of sessions needed varies depending on individual circumstances; however, many people report significant relief after just a few sessions. The length of each session may depend on various factors, including the complexity of the traumatic event or any underlying mental health conditions. Is EMDR therapy suitable for everyone? EMDR therapy may not be appropriate for individuals with certain medical or mental health conditions that could interfere with the processing of traumatic memories. These will be assessed by a trained therapist during an initial consultation to determine if EMDR therapy is a suitable treatment option. How can I find an EMDR therapist? It’s essential to find a qualified and experienced EMDR therapist who has completed an accredited training program. You can search for therapists in your area through the official website of the EMDR International Association (EMDRIA). Are there any risks associated with EMDR therapy? As with any form of psychotherapy, there are potential risks involved with EMDR therapy. In some cases, individuals may experience temporary disturbances in thoughts or emotions during or after a session, but these are typically resolved over time or with additional sessions. Is EMDR therapy covered by insurance? Many insurance providers cover EMDR therapy. However, coverage varies by provider and plan, so it’s best to check with your specific insurance company before starting EMDR sessions. Can EMDR therapy be done remotely? Originally, EMDR therapy was only conducted in person, but now there are options for remote treatment through online video conferencing. However, it’s essential to ensure the therapist you choose has received proper training in providing EMDR remotely. [/wc_box] Is EMDR Right for You? EMDR therapy has emerged as a promising treatment option for those struggling with various emotional or mental health concerns. It’s been a successful method for reprocessing negative or traumatic memories and has helped many achieve improved emotional well-being. So, is EMDR right for you? As with any therapy, it’s recommended that you speak with a medical professional before beginning any treatment. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Shapiro, F. (2014). The role of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) therapy in medicine: Addressing the psychological and physical symptoms stemming from adverse life experiences. Perm Journal, 18(1), 71–77. https://doi.org/10.7812/TPP/13-098 2. Wilson, G., Farrell, D., Barron, I., Hutchins, J., Whybrow, D., & Kiernan, M. D. (2018). The use of eye-movement desensitization reprocessing (EMDR) therapy in treating post-traumatic stress disorder—a systematic narrative review. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 923. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.00923
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Here Are 6 of the Best Ways to Build Resilience
How do you handle life’s curve balls? When you’ve experienced loss, adversity, trauma, or perhaps an ongoing period of high stress – what did you do to cope? How we handle life’s difficulties indicates our level of resilience. If you lack resilience, you might get overwhelmed by life’s challenges, shut down, and emotionally isolate. You might act out in unhealthy ways such as drinking too much alcohol or using another substance, risk-taking, undereating or overeating. Additionally, you might obsess or dwell on your problems and feel victimized. You might become unable to take action to help yourself. On the other hand, if you have greater resilience, you may adapt to life’s curve balls pretty well. You might draw on your inner reserves or faith as you move through the challenge, practicing a high level of self-care. You might readily rely on the social support you have already developed. You also might ensure you have downtime to be with your grief and feelings, and adopt a positive outlook, knowing your hardship will not last forever. You may even find positive actions to take that boost your self-esteem and well-being. Without resilience, life may be more difficult. With greater resilience, life may be more manageable. Difficulties even may become opportunities for profound personal growth. If you aren’t as resilient as you’d like to be, don’t worry. The good news is that you can develop more of this indispensable quality. Here’s how to build resilience. Defining Resilience Resilience is “the power or ability of a material to return to its original form, position, etc., after being bent, compressed, or stretched.” This definition suggests elasticity or flexibility, which is a great way to think about human resilience. However, human resilience also embodies something greater. Having the capacity to adapt and be flexible in our feelings, behaviors, and thinking when exposed to challenges is definitely a big part of being resilient. But there’s a personal growth or spiritual part of resilience too. A calamity or period of difficulty can alter us in a positive way, making us more able, wiser, and stronger. Resilience is adapting positively in the face of change or adversity. It comes with a load of benefits, too. The cognitive and emotional tools we develop when we adapt to adversity equip us to deal with what we may face in the future. Research¹ shows that resilience is protective against the effects of stress and a number of mental health issues, including persistent low mood and feelings of anxiousness. If you have a mental health condition, being resilient may help to improve your coping abilities. People who develop their resilience tend to enjoy stronger social connections as well. The following tips come from mental health experts and can help you become more resilient. 6 Simple Tips to Help You Build Resilience 1. Practice Excellent Self-Care This is a great place to start, especially if you’re currently dealing with something difficult. Ensure you’re taking excellent care of yourself. Start with the basics: restful sleep regular exercise nutritious meals a relaxation technique or spiritual practice (meditation/yoga, prayer, deep breathing, guided imagery, etc.) get outside in nature enjoy a hobby listen to some music you love watch a good program time to do nothing at all Excellent self-care, of course, also means avoiding negative outlets like numbing pain with alcohol, excess food, or other substances. 2. Develop Social Connections Having social support is one of the most foundational components of resilience.² Cultivate meaningful, positive relationships with friends and loved ones. These social connections can provide you with sustaining love, wisdom, support, guidance, and acceptance during good and difficult times. Don’t overlook connections outside of your inner circle. Join a spiritual group or community or even your neighborhood book club. 3. Look for Growth in Your Experiences Start developing a mindset that gleans the personal growth you’ve gained from life experiences, good and bad. That horrible breakup last summer? Write down a few things you learned from it. Consider how you have dealt with past hardships. What worked? What didn’t? If you’re currently challenged, is there something you’re learning? 4. Stay Positive and Hopeful Try to stay positive and expect good things to happen. Even if you feel awful currently, cultivate an inner knowing that the difficult time will pass. Times of adversity will not last forever. Find enjoyment in small pleasures. Practice acceptance as it will allow you to deal with your current situation with less anxiousness. Accepting circumstances that cannot be changed can help clarify what can be changed. 5. Find a Purpose Having a greater purpose can keep your sights on the horizon rather than focused on your problems. Take actions, no matter how small, that serve your greater purpose each day. It doesn’t have to be complicated. It could be simple like aiming to be of service to others or to be kind to others. Consider volunteering. Whether you help out at a local food pantry or just listen to a friend going through a hard time, it will help give you a sense of purpose. (It will also boost your self-esteem and connect you with others, further boosting your resilience!) 6. Become a Problem-Solver and Goal-Setter Exercise your problem-solving abilities by facing your challenges head-on. Enlist the help of others to help you, if need be. Write your problem down in black and white. Determine what you can do to make it better. Figure out what action you need to take, make a plan, and then do it. The same goes for goal-setting. Develop some well-defined and achievable goals and then take consistent, small steps toward achieving them. Taking steps towards solving a problem or reaching a goal can provide you with a sense of accomplishment – and that can help build resilience. Even small steps can help to improve your circumstances, build confidence, and reduce feelings of anxiousness. Seek Help Using your own resources and embracing these tips may not be enough. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional. They may provide the added support you need to become more resilient. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: Shrivastava, A., & Desousa, A. (2016). Resilience: A psychobiological construct for psychiatric disorders. Indian Journal of Psychiatry, 58(1), 38–43. https://doi.org/10.4103/0019-5545.174365 Ozbay, F., Johnson, D. C., Dimoulas, E., Morgan, C. A., Charney, D., & Southwick, S. (2007). Social support and resilience to stress: From neurobiology to clinical practice. Psychiatry (Edgmont), 4(5), 35–40. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2921311/
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Top 10 Ways to Help a Friend with Depressive Thoughts
In 2019, before the COVID pandemic hit, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimated roughly 18.5 percent of American adults experienced frequent depressive thoughts.¹ A recent survey showed that 23.5 percent of U.S. adult women and 21 percent of adult men self-reported having depressive thoughts. That means most of us know someone – perhaps a friend, colleague, neighbor, or family member – who’s suffering from this brain health issue. It’s useful then for us all to learn how to help someone with low mood. Spotting Low Mood Any of the following signs could indicate depression: Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness, or hopelessness Anger outbursts, irritability, or frustration Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities Too little or too much sleep Fatigue and lack of energy Changes in appetite and weight Anxiousness, agitation, or restlessness Slowed thinking, speaking, or body movements Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on past failures, self-blame Trouble thinking, concentrating, making decisions, and remembering things Frequent or recurrent mention of death or suicidal thoughts Unexplained physical problems, pain It can be alarming to recognize the signs in someone you care about. Follow these tips from mental health professionals about how to help someone who’s feeling low before you take action. 10 Ways to Help A Friend with Depressive Thoughts 1. Communicate Communicate with your friend about their feelings. Be kind, honest, and understanding. Let them know you care about them. Share your concerns and what you’ve observed and ask them about what they’re feeling and how you can be useful. Stay calm. Try to listen without reacting. Earn their confidence by setting judgment aside. Don’t scold them or blame them and be careful not to dismiss their pain. Having low mood might not be their fault. 2. Don’t Try to Fix It Resist the impulse to get into “fix it” mode with your friend or loved one. It isn’t your job to fix them and trying to often makes things worse. Their depressive thoughts may be linked to psychological or physiological issues. It may require a medical evaluation by a qualified professional. However, don’t underestimate your power to make a positive impact by providing loving support as your friend walks through a difficult challenge. 3. Don’t Take It Personally People with low mood can be difficult to be around. They’re often angry, apathetic, and withdrawn. Know that these are indications of their painful state of mind and body. Understanding this can keep you from feeling hurt, angry, or defensive. 4. Listen Giving the gift of your presence and listening with empathy can help your friend more than you know. Find the part in you that identifies with how they’re feeling. It isn’t easy. But this is what promotes real connection and makes someone feel heard. You can even reflect back what you heard to your friend and ask if you understood them correctly. “Tell me more,” is a great way to encourage your friend to open up about their struggles. 5. Get Informed Having low mood can be complicated. Brain health, stress, early losses and trauma, temperament, medical problems, and genetics can all factor into having consistent negative thoughts. Educate yourself. There are numerous books available and many excellent online resources. 6. Be Positive and Hopeful People with low mood usually have a hopeless outlook on life and feel helpless to do anything about it. They also have a lot of negative self-talk. Always be positive in your interactions with your friend. Let them know you believe in their ability to get better. A great way to help a friend is to remind them of their positive qualities and how much they mean to you and others. 7. Encourage Seeing a Medical Professional Low mood is treatable. If your friend hasn’t already consulted a medical professional, encourage them to do so. An accurate diagnosis from a medical professional and a personalized treatment plan can put them on the path to recovery. Of course, if you think your friend is in immediate danger of harming him/herself or others, call 911 or take your friend to the nearest emergency department. 8. Offer Assistance Often, people with low mood have difficulty with some of the basics of day-to-day living. They need support. Determine what you might be able to do and suggest a task you can take on for them. For example, they may need help going to the grocery store, cleaning their home, or paying bills. Hygiene can be difficult for them to maintain as well. Encourage them to shower, to eat something healthy, or to get outside for some fresh air. 9. Stay Connected People with low mood tend to isolate themselves from the rest of the world.² Stay connected. Find activities you can do with your friend and see them regularly. Meet them for a walk, watch a movie or TV show, or cook/bake something with them. Suggest doing an activity or hobby that they previously enjoyed. But if it’s too much, respect their limits. 10. Take Care of Yourself It’s important to step back and take care of yourself. Make sure you have healthy boundaries. Practice good self-care with brain-healthy habits such as exercising, eating right, meditating, getting good sleep, and challenging negative thoughts. Your healthy routine is one of the best things you can do to help your friend! Final Thought Be patient. It may take a while for him/her to feel bright and hopeful again. If you care enough to read this, you’re likely a very supportive friend! At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Villarroel, M. A., & Terlizzi, E. P. (2020). Symptoms of depression among adults: United States, 2019 (NCHS Data Brief No. 379). National Center for Health Statistics. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db379.htm 2. Luo, M. (2022). Social isolation, loneliness, and depressive symptoms: A twelve-year population study of temporal dynamics. Journal of Gerontology: Series B, Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences, 78(2), 280–290. https://doi.org/10.1093/geronb/gbac174
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What to Do When You Feel Stuck in Life
Do you feel stuck? You aren't alone. People of all stages of life may be dealing with challenges similar to yours. Singles: growing weary of the dating game? Married couples: exhausted from dealing with relationship issues? Parents: problems with your kids making you lose your mind? What about your career? Do you feel stuck there too? Or perhaps lack of work is causing heightened levels of stress and worry. And what about leisure activities? Do you fail to derive the same level of enjoyment from hobbies and activities that you used to? Do you feel like your workout routines have plateaued? These, and many other factors, can make you desperate for a change in your current circumstances. Being in a rut can make you more prone to negative thoughts – which can make you feel even more stuck. The good news is there are natural ways to help you mentally deal with your feelings of sameness or personal stagnation. Following these 6 helpful steps can help you revitalize your routines… 6 Ways to Keep Moving Forward with Your Life When You Feel Stuck Mental Hygiene While it's necessary to practice good physical hygiene, many fail to realize that it’s just as important to have good mental hygiene. Letting your fears run wild in your mind can leave you feeling stressed or worried, so be proactive at curbing negative thoughts. You can disinfect your thoughts by exterminating the ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) that steal your happiness. Anytime you feel sad, mad, nervous, or stressed, write down what you’re thinking and then challenge that ANT. When you stop believing every fearful thought you have, you can start to regain control of your life. Deep Breathing Whenever you feel trapped or overwhelmed, do a deep breathing exercise. Take a deep breath, hold it for two seconds, and then slowly exhale for about five seconds. Do this 10 times and you should start to feel relaxed. It sounds so simple, but breathing is essential to life. When you slow down and become more efficient with your breathing, you may find that your outlook has improved and that you feel less stressed¹ and worried. Easy Does It While physical activity has an overall positive effect on health and longevity,² it’s possible to overdo it. Those who don't prefer working out at the gym may choose to increase the frequency and intensity of their at-home workout routines to stay in shape. While this is a healthy impulse, too much exercise can have a negative effect on the body and brain. For instance, it’s possible to tear a muscle or cause joint pain. Those unaccustomed to high-intensity workouts also may experience increased stress from such vigorous exercise. A low-impact exercise, like walking, is ideal since getting outside for some fresh air and sunshine should help to counter the effects of boredom or cabin fever. Virtual Vacation Traveling to far-off places can introduce you to new experiences, customs, sights, and people. But what can you do if you don’t have the time, resources, or ability to travel to an exotic location? Take a virtual vacation! Select a country you’d like to visit and watch an online travelogue or documentary to learn more about its culture, cuisine, and points of interest. Or, establish a weekly education night where you virtually visit the dream destinations of everyone in your family. Learning as much as you can about a culture now will serve to enrich your experience when you eventually visit the country in the future. Stay Connected Social connections are incredibly important to your overall well-being. Focusing your time and energy on positive people can have a dramatic impact on your everyday life and longevity. Having quality connections also can help remind you that you’re not alone in the world. Even if you live a great distance from friends or family, visual communications are possible via applications like Skype or FaceTime. Also, a good old-fashioned phone call is still an excellent way to keep in touch with others, so consider reaching out to that old college buddy or long-lost relative. Ride the Waves Perhaps your energy levels have yo-yoed or your mood has resembled a roller coaster ride during recent months. Coping strategies might help you during this unprecedented season of life. One technique is to visualize yourself riding ocean waves. Realizing that you’ll encounter many ups and downs in the days and months ahead can help you anticipate potential problems and recover from them more quickly. These are just a few proven tips for dealing with isolation and worry. We hope they help you, and your friends and family, get out of a rut and back on track. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: Perciavalle, V., Blandini, M., Fecarotta, P., Buscemi, A., Di Corrado, D., Bertolo, L., Fichera, F., & Coco, M. (2017). The role of deep breathing on stress: A randomized controlled trial. Neurological Sciences, 38(3), 451–458. https://doi.org/10.1007/s10072-016-2790-8 Warburton, D. E. R., Nicol, C. W., & Bredin, S. D. S. (2006). Health benefits of physical activity: The evidence. CMAJ, 174(6), 801–809. https://doi.org/10.1503/cmaj.051351
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Here Are 7 Dangers for Gamers and Top Tips That Can Help
In pixelated realms and sprawling open worlds, players often become so immersed in their quests that real-life dangers lurk just beyond the screen. Since gaming can sometimes come with unfortunate downsides, here are some potential hazards every gamer should be aware of – because leveling up isn’t just about skills and speed, but about safety and awareness. Video Gaming and Its Dangers On Health Video gaming has exploded in popularity over the past few decades. What started as a niche hobby has transformed into a global phenomenon, captivating millions of players across the age spectrum. From immersive storylines to competitive multiplayer battles, there’s no denying the allure of virtual adventures. Though leveling up your character can be thrilling, it’s important for gamers to be aware of the potential dangers of playing video games. Understanding these dangers for gamers can help ensure you enjoy playing video games without sacrificing your well-being. 7 Dangers for Gamers & Top Tips That Can Help Effects on the Musculoskeletal System Long hours spent gaming can lead to serious strain on the musculoskeletal system. Poor posture, from hours spent glued to a screen, is often the culprit. Many gamers find themselves hunched over, which puts pressure on their spine and neck. This unnatural position may cause discomfort that lingers long after leaving the console. Muscle tension in the shoulders and back can become severe if not addressed properly. Stretching and taking breaks are vital but easily forgotten during immersive gameplay sessions. Also, repetitive movements, such as gripping controllers or a computer mouse for extended periods can contribute to hand and wrist issues. Investing in ergonomic furniture may help alleviate some physical risks associated with extended gaming hours. Increased Risk of Health Problems The link between gaming and weight issues is becoming more apparent. Long hours spent in front of a screen can lead to mindless snacking and poor dietary choices. When immersed in virtual worlds, it’s easy to forget about the importance of balanced meals. Also, physical inactivity can play a significant role here. Sitting for extended periods can slow the metabolism and decrease caloric burn. This sedentary behavior¹ can contribute to weight gain over time. The combination of high-calorie snacks and low levels of physical activity can help raise cholesterol levels and blood pressure, which may eventually lead to cardiovascular issues. Eye Strain and Vision Problems Spending long hours in front of a screen can take a toll on your eyes. Many gamers experience visual discomfort, often referred to as digital eye strain. Symptoms may include dryness, irritation, and blurred vision. This occurs when the eyes work overtime to focus on small images and text. The blue light emitted from screens also can contribute to eye fatigue. Taking regular breaks is essential for maintaining eye health. A simple technique is the 20-20-20 rule: every 20 minutes, look at something 20 feet away for at least 20 seconds. Adjusting screen brightness and using proper lighting can make a significant difference too. Consider investing in blue light filters or wearing specialized glasses designed for gaming sessions. Your eyes deserve care just like any other part of your body. Ignoring these cautions may lead to more severe issues down the line. Mental Health Concerns Video gaming can be a double-edged sword when it comes to mental health. On the one hand, it offers an escape and a way to connect with others. On the other hand, the potential for becoming hooked looms large. Some players find themselves trapped in cycles of compulsive behavior that interfere with their daily life. Social isolation is another significant issue. While online interactions may promote friendships, excessive gaming may lead to a detachment from real-world relationships. This disconnect can result in feelings of loneliness and low mood. Cognitive development may suffer if gaming becomes the primary form of engagement for young minds. Also, strategic thinking² skills may potentially stagnate without diverse experiences away from the screen. Balancing time spent in virtual worlds with real-life activities is essential for maintaining mental well-being. Online Safety Concerns The digital gaming world can be thrilling, but it isn’t without its risks. Cyberbullying is a harsh reality for many players. Harassment can escalate quickly, ruining the fun and leaving long-lasting emotional scars. Exposure to inappropriate content is another pressing concern. Many games contain online interactions that might expose younger gamers to adult themes or violent imagery. It’s crucial for parents to monitor their children’s gaming experiences closely. Additionally, protecting personal information should be a top priority. Gamers often share details in chats or forums without realizing the potential consequences. Always use strong passwords and avoid sharing identifying data like your address or school name. Staying informed about these dangers can help create a safer, more enjoyable, environment for gamers. Sleep Deprivation Sleep deprivation is a silent threat that many gamers overlook. Late-night gaming sessions can cut into precious hours of rest. The bright screens and intense gameplay may create an addictive cycle that’s hard to break. Failing to get enough sleep can lead to problems with cognitive function. When operating with less than 6 hours of sleep, your decision-making, focus, and reaction times³ all may suffer. Lack of sleep increases the risk of accidents both in-game and out in the real world. Fatigue behind the wheel or during daily activities not only places you in danger, it also may affect those around you. Establishing good sleep habits is essential for maintaining peak performance while gaming. Also, limiting screen time before bed and creating a calming pre-sleep routine may help you achieve the quality sleep you need. Effects on Brain Function Gaming can significantly impact brain function, often in unexpected ways. While some players may focus on the positive aspects of gaming, such as keeping reflexes sharp and improving hand-eye coordination, excessive playtime may lead to negative consequences such as cognitive decline. Extended periods spent in front of a screen may hinder focus and attention. This is especially true for fast-paced games that demand constant multitasking. Over time, this can make it challenging to concentrate on tasks outside the game. Also, the highly competitive nature of gaming might increase stress levels. Elevated stress hormones can impair memory recall and decision-making abilities. Balancing intense gameplay with other activities may help mitigate these effects. Engaging in offline hobbies or physical exercise may give the brain a chance to recharge. Find Balance, Have Fun! While video games provide enjoyment and social interaction, it’s crucial to be aware of the possible dangers for gamers. Finding a balance between gaming and healthy habits is essential for every gamer. Incorporating regular physical activity into your routine can help mitigate health risks related to a sedentary lifestyle. Maintaining awareness of mental health is equally important; being mindful of the amount of time spent gaming and staying connected with friends outside the virtual world can help prevent feelings of isolation. Also, establishing good sleep habits can help enhance both gaming performance and your overall well-being. Awareness of the above dangers is essential for every gamer looking to maintain their health while enjoying their favorite pastime. Simple lifestyle changes can have a profound impact on long-term wellness without sacrificing gaming enjoyment. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest quality supplements to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. *These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Panahi, S., & Tremblay, A. (2018). Sedentariness and health: Is sedentary behavior more than just physical inactivity? Frontiers in Public Health, 6, 258. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpubh.2018.00258 2. Yee, N. (2024, May 21). Gamers have become less interested in strategic thinking and planning. Quantic Foundry. https://www.quanticfoundry.com/2024/05/21/gamers-have-become-less-interested-in-strategic-thinking-and-planning/ 3. Eugene, A. R., & Masiak, J. (2015). The neuroprotective aspects of sleep. MEDtube Science, 3(1), 35–40. https://doi.org/10.24125/mts.2015.3.1.35
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12 of the Best Ways to Ease Cabin Fever This Winter
Have you ever felt like you’re trapped inside a time loop like in the movie “Groundhog Day,” with each new day playing out in a nearly identical manner to the previous one? If you’re looking for ways to break up daily monotony, the good news is there are many stress-reducing, mood-boosting activities you can do from the safety of your own home. So if you need a vacation from your staycation, or relief from cabin fever during the winter months, here are a dozen tips for how to deal with the isolation blues… 12 of the Best Ways to Shake Up Your Routine This Winter 1. Can You Say Feng Shui? If it feels like the walls are closing in around you, it might be time to give your home a makeover. Start with one room and consider how you can improve the balance, flow, and harmony (there are many feng shui strategies to help with this) by moving around furniture, plants, and even pictures. Rearranging the rooms in your house can be a fun mental puzzle, like playing Tetris with furniture. It can also help you burn some calories and get a head start on spring cleaning. These alterations just might make you feel like you’re living in a new house for a few days or weeks, which should help improve mood¹ and fend off the feelings of cabin fever. So, pick a room and roll up your sleeves. It’s time to put the fun in functional! 2. Preserve Precious Memories If it’s been a while since you preserved your memories, take some time to work on a scrapbook or photo album. Also, editing, archiving, and watching old family videos can serve the double purpose of providing hours of enjoyment working on a hobby while also reminding you of some of the happier moments in your life. And who couldn’t use some uplifting thoughts right about now? 3. Read a Book Reading stimulates a wide variety of brain regions² that process, interpret, and analyze what you read, and then store that information for later recall. In other words, reading is good for your brain. So, why not hit your summer reading list early this year (if you don’t know what to read, we’ve got plenty of book recommendations for you)? Also, you can enhance your experience by joining or hosting a virtual book club. 4. Game Night With increased cautions surrounding video games, sometimes it’s nice to have a low-tech game night. If you already own some board games, dig them out of the closet and prepare for hours of fun. Don’t feel obligated to purchase these, but here are some of my favorite board games: Scattergories – great for sharpening your recall and word knowledge. A fun, fast-paced party game. Stratego – essentially “capture the flag” on a board, it effectively combines chess-like strategy (pieces with various functions and values) with advanced memory skills (you must mentally track the other player’s pieces, which are faced away from you). 221B Baker Street – lives up to its billing as the “master detective game.” Assume the role of Sherlock Holmes, visit various London locations, collect clues, and solve the case. If you like Clue, you’ll love this game. Did I mention you get to be Sherlock Holmes? 5. Virtual Vacation Traveling to far-off places can introduce you to new experiences, customs, sights, and people. But what can you do if you don’t have the time, resources or ability to travel to an exotic location? Take a virtual vacation! Select a country you’d like to visit and watch an online travelogue or documentary to learn more about the local culture, cuisine, and points of interest. Or, establish a weekly education night where you virtually visit the dream destinations of everyone in your family. Learning as much as you can about a destination ahead of time will serve to enrich your experience when you actually visit the country in the future. 6. Home Improvements If you’ve been meaning to fix the dryer or repaint the spare bedroom, this might be an ideal time to make some improvements around your house. If you should get stuck at any point, there are many DIY instructional videos on YouTube for how to fix just about anything. Above all, use common sense, like using a ladder or step stool to help you reach high places, and stay injury-free. 7. Personal Inventory Though it may be difficult to establish a 5-year (or even 1-year) plan right now, making a personal inventory can pay off dividends in the future. A One-page Miracle (OPM) can help you make better choices, which will enable you to achieve more in life. Write down the specific goals you have for each major area of your life. Then ask yourself every day, “Is my behavior getting me what I want?” This simple but profound activity can aid the process of turning your thoughts into reality. Click here for tips on how to create your own OPM. 8. Learn Something New Set aside some time every day to learn something new. Here are some examples: Learn a foreign language Pick up a musical instrument like the guitar, piano or drums (please be mindful of your shut-in neighbors) Improve your cognitive functioning with crossword puzzles, Sudoku or brain games Learn a new exercise, type of dance or other physical activity Take a chess tutorial Learn how to draw or paint Learn how to cook (or try new healthy recipes) Take an online class Brain researchers emphasize that the “use it or lose it” principle applies to the brain. When the brain stops learning it can start fading, so be intentional at learning new things. 9. Movie Night Having a movie night is a great way to keep the entire family occupied and spend some quality time together. You can select a family favorite or a new release. Or, if you’re up for a twist, have everyone write down their movie selection on a strip of paper, put the folded slips into a bowl, and have someone randomly select the winner. Although the idea might meet with initial resistance from younger family members, consider watching a classic movie. Films like “The Wizard of Oz” (1939) or “The Adventures of Robin Hood” (1938) are sure to appeal to every member of your family. 10. Take a Walk If you’re feeling a little cooped up, stepping outside for some fresh air is a healthy choice, both mentally and physically. The change in scenery will give you a new perspective, which might inspire some new ideas that you can use in your personal or professional life (the idea for this blog came while I was on a walk). Walking can help clear your mind, improve your mood,³ and burn some calories all at the same time. It also can help ensure you get some vitamin D3 (if it’s sunny out). Be sure to dress warmly when taking a stroll during the winter months. 11. Write It Down The process of journaling gives stressful thoughts a place to live other than your brain. Once those concerns have been expressed, they often lose their intensity and urgency, which can help you mentally relax. Writing in your journal 10 minutes before you go to bed can help relieve the worries of the day and put you in a restful state of mind. 12. Stay Connected Social connections are incredibly important to your overall well-being. Focusing your time and energy on positive people can have a dramatic impact on your everyday life and longevity. Though you might feel more distant from people than ever before, visually communicating with others is possible via applications like Zoom, Skype, or FaceTime. Of course, a good old-fashioned phone call is still an excellent way of keeping in touch with friends and loved ones. Relieve Your Cabin Fever Hopefully implementing these ideas will help alleviate any lethargy or loneliness you may be experiencing this winter season. Feel free to share these tips, along with any others you can think of, with your friends and family. And, stay healthy and safe! At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. DeBusk, C. (2022, May 9). Using Feng Shui for your mental health. Verywell Mind. https://www.verywellmind.com/using-feng-shui-for-your-mental-health-5188480 2. Houston, S. M., Lebel, C., Katzir, T., Manis, F. R., Kan, E., Rodriguez, G. R., & Sowell, E. R. (2014). Reading skill and structural brain development. Neuroreport, 25(5), 347–352. https://doi.org/10.1097/WNR.0000000000000121 3. DeAngelis, T. (2022, November). Want to boost your mental health? Take a walk. Monitor on Psychology, 53(8), 80. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2022/11/feature-walk
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What Is Trauma and Where Can I Get Help?
Trauma affects millions of people worldwide and can have a significant impact on their mental health. From childhood abuse to natural disasters, understanding trauma is critical in helping individuals overcome the difficulties it presents. Whether you’re someone who’s personally experienced trauma or are seeking to learn more for personal development purposes, the following are valuable insights into what trauma is and how it impacts mental health. Let’s explore the intricacies of this crucial topic. What is Trauma? Trauma is a type of stress that can have long-lasting effects on a person’s mental and emotional health. It can be caused by an event or series of events that are emotionally threatening or overwhelming. Traumatic events can include car accidents, sexual assault or abuse, and exposure to violence or war. People who’ve experienced trauma may feel like they’re in danger even when they aren’t. They may feel scared, helpless, or alone. These individuals may be easily startled, become irritable or aggressive, have trouble sleeping, or avoid people or places that remind them of the traumatic event. These are all normal reactions to trauma. But for some, these reactions linger long after the event is over and can lead to reliving the trauma through nightmares and flashbacks. This may cause them to feel isolated, ashamed, or hopeless, which may lead to substance abuse, mood issues, and other mental or behavioral problems. These issues may stem from one of the different types of trauma. Types of Trauma There are many kinds of trauma that can occur throughout a person’s life. The most common types of trauma include: Physical abuse Sexual abuse Emotional abuse Psychological trauma Childhood trauma Natural disasters War or conflict Common Symptoms of Trauma Trauma can manifest in many ways, but there are some symptoms that tend to be common among those who’ve experienced it. Each type of trauma can have different effects on a person’s mental health. Some people may experience short-term effects, while others may suffer from long-term effects. Some common symptoms of trauma include: Mood issues Intrusive thoughts or memories/flashbacks of the event Avoidance of anything that reminds them of the event Increased worry and fearfulness Nightmares or sleeplessness Agitation or irritability Guilt or shame Feeling disconnected from others or emotionally numb It’s important to seek professional help if you’re experiencing any of these symptoms. A therapist can help you identify the source of your symptoms and develop a treatment plan to address them. Effects of Trauma on Mental Health Trauma can have a profound effect on mental health. Traumatic events can trigger a range of psychological reactions and other conditions. People who’ve experienced trauma often feel isolated and alone. They may feel like they aren’t worthy of help or that no one can understand what they’re going through. These feelings can make it hard for them to reach out for support. Untreated trauma can lead to long-term mental health problems. Coping Strategies for Dealing with Trauma When people think of the word trauma, they often associate it with a single, life-altering event, such as a experiencing a natural disaster or surviving a violent act. While these experiences certainly can be traumatizing, it’s important to remember that trauma isn’t always initiated by such dramatic events. Trauma can be caused by any experience that overwhelms your emotions, negatively affects your mood and stress levels, and causes you to isolate. Isolation can be a major factor in both causing and prolonging trauma. When you feel isolated and alone, you’re more likely to dwell on your trauma, which can magnify its effects. As such, one of the most important things you can do when coping with trauma is to seek out social support. One recent study¹ proved the importance of social support in trauma recovery, presenting a biopsychosocial model that explores how interpersonal connections can aid in managing trauma symptoms and fostering resilience after traumatic events. Surround yourself with family and friends who will listen to you and offer words of comfort. If you don’t have close friends or family members you can rely on, there are many support groups available for people dealing with trauma. Talking about your experience with others who’ve been through similar situations can be very helpful in coming to terms with what happened and beginning the healing process. It’s also important to take care of yourself physically when you’re dealing with trauma. Exercise and proper nutrition can help improve your mood and give you more energy to cope with difficult emotions. Be sure to get enough sleep, as fatigue can make it harder to deal with stress. Also, try to find activities that bring you joy and help you relax. Whether it’s reading, playing music, or engaging in deep breathing exercises, find activities that can help reduce stress and increase calm and relaxation. Best Treatment Options for Those Experiencing Trauma There are a variety of treatment options available for those experiencing trauma. The type of treatment will vary depending on the individual and the severity of their trauma. Some common treatments include: [wc_box color="inverse" text_align="left" margin_top="" margin_bottom="" class=""] Psychotherapy: This is a type of counseling that can help individuals process their feelings and thoughts related to the trauma. It can be done in an individual or group setting. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: CBT can help individuals change negative thinking patterns and behaviors that may be associated with their trauma. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing: EMDR uses eye movement to help reduce the intensity of traumatic memories and has been an effective treatment for many people, including those struggling with post-traumatic issues. Supplements: High-quality dietary supplements may help with emotional, physical, and mental challenges. It’s always recommended to speak with a nutritionally-informed doctor or healthcare professional before starting any supplement regimen. [/wc_box] Long-Term Effects of Untreated Trauma Trauma doesn’t have to be a singular, life-altering event. It can be the result of several negative experiences that cumulatively create an overwhelming sense of hopelessness, powerlessness, and fear. For many people dealing with untreated trauma, attempts at numbing their emotional pain may lead to substance abuse² and self-harming behaviors. If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma, help is available. If you aren’t sure what to do, talking to a doctor or mental healthcare practitioner is a great place to start. Hope for the Journey to Recovery Trauma is a life-changing event that can have a major impact on an individual’s mental and physical health. It’s important to be aware of the signs and symptoms of trauma, how it can manifest in day-to-day life, and what potential treatments are available for those affected. Remaining open to conversations about this topic can provide support and understanding for those who’ve gone through a traumatic experience. With safe spaces, educational resources, and proper professional help, it’s possible to find the support and encouragement you need to guide you on your journey of recovery. Amen Clinics offers in-clinic and telehealth (via telephone and video conferencing) services. To learn more about the full range of services at Amen Clinics or to set up an appointment, please call 866-347-6076. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest quality supplements to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. *These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Calhoun, C. D., Stone, K. J., Cobb, A. R., Patterson, M. W., Danielson, C. K., & Bendezú, J. J. (2022). The role of social support in coping with psychological trauma: An integrated biopsychosocial model for posttraumatic stress recovery. Psychiatric Quarterly, 93(4), 949–970. https://doi.org/10.1007/S11126-022-10003-W. 2. Center for Substance Abuse Treatment. (2014). Chapter 3: Understanding the impact of trauma. In Trauma-informed care in behavioral health services (Treatment Improvement Protocol (TIP) Series No. 57). Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. Available from https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK207191/
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Helpful Ways to Cope with Grief and Loss During Hard Times
Are you dealing with a loss? Maybe you've recently lost a job or lost someone close to you. Identifying and processing your feelings can help you cope with a personal, relational, or financial tragedy. If you’re struggling with a loss, there are steps you can take to begin the healing process. The first is to identify which stage of grief you’re in and what that means. The Stages of Grief Grief can leave a lasting imprint on the brain and can cause many physical and mental problems. It can make people feel sad, moody, unfocused, edgy, or irritable. It can even cause sleep issues. Although models vary, many counselors follow the 5 Stages of Grief (Kubler-Ross Grief Cycle) to help their patients. The 5 Stages are: [wc_box color="inverse" text_align="left" margin_top="" margin_bottom="" class=""] Denial – This is typically the first stage (some quickly proceed to Anger). When faced with an unexpected or tragic situation, many people resist the facts or enter a state of disbelief. Anger – As the reality of the situation sets in, many people become outraged and may even start to blame others. This is especially true when an avoidable or senseless tragedy has occurred. Bargaining – When people feel helpless and vulnerable, they may try to regain control with “If only” statements like, “If only we’d gotten that second opinion.” Depression – Depression may manifest itself as mourning, sadness, regret, helplessness, or hopelessness. Acceptance – People who arrive at this stage have come to terms with what happened and are trying to figure out how to move forward with their lives. Some reach this stage only after extreme effort. Sadly, some never fully reach this stage. [/wc_box] If you’re in the process of grieving, working through this cycle can be a huge help. Here are 6 additional strategies for how to deal with loss and recover from grief… 6 Helpful Ways to Cope with Grief and Loss 1. Don’t Avoid Your Feelings A healthy way to deal with grief and loss is to allow yourself to express painful emotions. In a private place, let out your feelings: cry, pound pillows, and even scream if necessary. Avoiding painful thoughts, feelings, and memories can do more harm than good in the long run. Research has shown that avoidance increases the likelihood of a host of psychological issues¹ that can lead to mood problems, binge eating, persistent pain, low academic performance, and more. 2. Write It Down Suppressing your feelings (negative emotional energy from grief, guilt, anger, etc.) can lead to harmful behaviors and coping methods. Whenever you have a bout of grief, write down your feelings in a journal or notebook. This can help bring perspective, which often gets lost during emotional crises. The process of journaling gives mournful thoughts a place to live other than your brain. Once those concerns have been expressed, they often lose their intensity and urgency, which will help you mentally relax. Writing in your journal 10 minutes before you go to bed can help relieve worries and put you in a restful state of mind. 3. Overcoming Painful Memories A helpful way to overcome emotional trauma or grief involves breaking the bonds of the past. This exercise is based on the belief that negative feelings and behaviors are often motivated by memories that are either inaccurate or unhealthy. Whenever you have a painful or disruptive memory or feeling, write down the answers to the following 5 questions: When was the last time you struggled, had the disruptive memory or feeling, or emotional pain? Give details. What were you feeling at the time? Describe the predominant emotion. In your mind, imagine yourself on a train going backward through time. Go back to a time when you had the feeling. Write down the incident in detail. Can you go back even further to the moment you had the feeling for the first time? Write down the details of the original incident. If you’ve identified the origin of your feelings, can you disconnect them by reprocessing them through an adult or parent mindset? Consciously disconnect the emotional bridge to the past with the knowledge that what happened in the past belongs in the past, and what happens now is what matters. This technique has helped many people who’ve struggled with grief and loss. Keep in mind that this process can dredge up painful memories. 4. Volunteer When you’re emotionally ready, consider volunteering at a homeless shelter, food bank, or animal refuge. Serving others can help alleviate sorrow, increase health and happiness, and make you feel grateful for the positive things in your life. Volunteering² for a cause you believe in can give you something to look forward to and is a great way to find like-minded friends. Doing any of these activities with a partner or in a group can promote bonding and make the experience even richer. Also, by sharing your experiences, you might be able to help someone else who’s dealing with loss. 5. Don’t Rush Recovery It’s important to realize that people react differently to loss. Some quickly rebound from a trial or trauma. Others may require more time to get back on their feet. Try to remain patient during this difficult time. Though the natural tendency is to accelerate the recovery period, there’s no set time limit. Just as grieving is a process, so too is recovery. 6. Reach Out for Help Though isolating yourself during tough times may seem like the safest option, closing yourself off from the world can intensify your feelings of grief and loss. Resist the urge to shut out the individuals who can offer you encouragement and support. Reach out to friends and family and let them know when you’re emotionally overwhelmed. Seek professional help if necessary, but don’t fight your battles alone. Where to Find Help Many people receive guidance and emotional support from talk therapy. Speaking with a trained therapist or counselor can make a significant improvement in your outlook and ability to bounce back from life’s challenges. During these uncertain times, your mental well-being is just as important as your physical well-being. If you’re dealing with anger, guilt, sadness, or mood issues, you don’t have to continue struggling alone. Amen Clinics offers in-clinic and telehealth (via telephone and video conferencing) services. To learn more about the full range of services at Amen Clinics or to set up an appointment, please call 866-347-6076. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest quality supplements to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Fernández-Rodríguez, C., Paz-Caballero, D., González-Fernández, S., & Pérez-Álvarez, M. (2018). Activation vs. experiential avoidance as a transdiagnostic condition of emotional distress: An empirical study. Frontiers in Psychology, 9, 1618. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.01618 2. Coren, E., Phillips, J., Moore, J., Brownett, T., & Whitfield, L. (2021). An examination of the impacts of volunteering and community contribution at a community festival through the lens of the five ways to wellbeing. International Journal of Community Wellbeing, 5(1), 137–156. https://doi.org/10.1007/s42413-021-00154-2
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10 of the Best Ways to Have Emotional Stability in an Uncertain World
On a scale from 1 to 10, how anxious are you feeling right now? Do you feel like everything’s up in the air and you can’t make any solid plans? Are you living in a constant state of worry and stress? Perhaps a crisis at home or work has completely disrupted your daily schedule, creating a variety of lifestyle changes that have impacted your focus, sleep, and mood. Or, maybe the unique stressors of these uncertain times have impaired your ability to cope, making you feel completely overwhelmed most of the time. Though you can’t stop what’s happening around the globe, you can change what’s going on inside your brain to prevent fear from dominating your life. If you need some relief from all the chaos or uncertainty in your life, here are 10 helpful ways to dial back the stress and fear… 10 Ways to Help You Find Emotional Stability & Overcome Fear in an Uncertain World 1. Start Out Positive Begin each morning by saying something like, “Today is going to be a great day!” Such a simple sentence can cause your brain to look for ways to fulfill that hopeful statement. It also establishes a healthy thought pattern that you can continue throughout the day. When you focus on positive affirmations, your brain can help you discover ways to turn them into reality. This simple strategy can make a significant difference in your life, so do it first thing in the morning to set the tone for your entire day. 2. Mental Hygiene While physical cleanliness is extremely important, many fail to realize that it’s just as important to practice mental hygiene. Letting your fears run wild in your mind can leave you feeling stressed or worried, so be proactive at curbing negative thoughts. You can disinfect your thoughts by exterminating the ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) that steal your happiness. Anytime you feel sad, mad, nervous, or stressed, write down what you’re thinking and then challenge that ANT. When you stop believing every fearful thought you have, you can start to regain control of your life. 3. Healthy Fears During hectic, tragic, or unpredictable seasons of life, it’s completely normal to feel stressed or worried. It’s also natural to have fears or occasional feelings of anxiousness. Not all fears are bad; appropriate levels of worry can keep you sharp and safe. In fact, having a healthy fear of potentially harmful things can save your life. That may be why the “don’t worry, be happy” types – like those who crowd Florida’s beaches during Spring Break – tend to be the earliest to die from accidents and preventable illnesses. 4. Just Breathe Whenever you feel worried, frustrated, angry, or tense, consider doing a deep breathing exercise. Take a deep breath, hold it for one to two seconds, and then slowly exhale for about five seconds. Do this 10 times and you should start to feel very relaxed, perhaps even a little sleepy. It sounds so simple, but breathing is essential to life. When you slow down and become more efficient with your breathing, you may find that your problems aren’t as dire as you thought they were before you started the exercise. 5. Visit a Haven Choose a haven – a place you can imagine with all your senses. If it’s the beach, visualize the ocean, feel the sand beneath your feet, and the warm sun on your skin. Your haven can be any real or imaginary place where you feel comfortable. Begin to envision yourself not as you currently are, but as you want to be. Spend at least 20 minutes a day on this refueling, life-changing exercise. You’ll be amazed at the results. 6. Avoid Alcohol Frequent consumption of alcohol is associated with lowered brain volume. The functional consequences of this effect can be life-altering in their scope. Many people use alcohol to calm their worries, but this coping strategy can significantly backfire. Alcohol’s impact on health is serious: though well known to harm the liver, it also can damage the heart, lungs, and pancreas. It also affects mood, which can make what’s going on in your life or the world seem even gloomier. 7. Outdoor Activities Engaging in outdoor activities is important for everyone. Exercise can increase blood flow¹ to deliver oxygen and other positive nutrients to the brain. Physical activity has also been associated with improved mood and a more optimistic outlook on life. Whether you enjoy hiking, biking, or horseback riding, being outdoors has an overall positive effect on vitality. Walking can help clear your mind, improve your mood, and burn some calories all at the same time. 8. Tea Time Drinking a cup of warm tea can help relieve stress and lift your spirits. Many teas are low calorie, sugar-free, high in antioxidants, and low in caffeine. Some decaffeinated teas can help you feel more at ease. For centuries, chamomile tea has been hailed for its calming effects. This herbal tea helps promote relaxation and can help alleviate the stresses of the day, so you can turn off your brain and get some quality sleep. 9. Turn Off the News When news channels present unsettling projections and shocking images, the fear centers of the brain may be activated. News can induce a state of FOMO (fear of missing out) that keeps you riveted to each new alarming or controversial event, which can make you feel even more on edge. Obsessively scrolling through news sites on the internet also can fill you with fear. In fact, watching negative news can increase both anxious and sad moods. Minimize your exposure to the news by establishing time limits and stop watching TV at least an hour before you go to sleep at night. 10. End the Day Well At night, ask yourself, “What went well today?” Even if you’re struggling with emotions, worried about finances, or having relationship issues, there’s sure to be at least one good thing that happened earlier in the day. Right before bed, write down 3 things that went well during the day. Train your brain to review the positive events of the day and create your own nightly highlight reel. It will help you sleep better, which will enhance your mood and energy levels the next day. Research has shown that people who did this exercise were happier and less depressed at 1-month and 6-month follow-ups than at the study’s outset. In a 2017 study,² this simple exercise was found to help people in stressful jobs develop a more positive sense of well-being. This easy activity can help you end each day on a positive note. Found, Emotional Stability These are just a few of the proven techniques you can use to reduce the stress and fear in your life. Try these tips and see which ones work best for you. Then, feel free to share them with your friends and family. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest purity nutrients to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Mulser, L., & Moreau, D. (2023). Effect of acute cardiovascular exercise on cerebral blood flow: A systematic review. Brain Research, 1809, Article 148355. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.brainres.2023.148355 2. Rippstein-Leuenberger, K., Mauthner, O., Sexton, J. B., & Schwendimann, R. (2017). A qualitative analysis of the Three Good Things intervention in healthcare workers. BMJ Open, 7(5), e015826. https://doi.org/1. /bmjopen-2017-015826
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10 of The Best Ways to Practice Gratitude
With the holidays rapidly approaching, it’s time to focus on family and friends. It’s also the season to celebrate the many good things that have taken place in your life over the past year. Even if you’ve experienced disappointments or setbacks, there are still plenty of things to be grateful for in life. Concentrating on the positive can have a huge impact on your outlook and success. The Power of Gratitude Did you know that practicing gratitude actually makes your brain work better? It causes significant changes to occur in your brain that can enhance function and make you feel better. Research¹ suggests that focusing on gratitude helps to calm the deep limbic areas and enhance the other judgment centers of your brain. People who express gratitude on a regular basis are healthier, more optimistic, make better progress toward their goals, have a greater sense of well-being, and are more helpful to others. Living in a state of gratitude is more than just thanking someone for opening the door for you – although that’s a good thing to do. It’s about having an attitude of gratitude regardless of the circumstances. Practicing these 10 habits can help you remain grateful during the holidays and throughout the year: 10 Ways to Practice Gratitude Every Day 1. Compliment Others Find something nice to say to family, friends, coworkers or even a stranger in an elevator or at the grocery store. Complimenting someone on their outfit, hair or backpack pin will make them feel better about themselves. Kind words can create a positive feedback loop; the person giving the compliment often ends up feeling just as uplifted as the receiver of the compliment. Getting in the habit of complimenting others is a great way to nurture existing friendships while cultivating new ones. 2. Be Mindful In our “take care of number one” society, our focus tends to be on ourselves rather than on others. Try to be more mindful of those around you. If they have a need, try to meet it. Force yourself to stay attentive in every conversation. Be an active listener and make eye contact with the person talking to you. Chances are, they’ll appreciate you taking the time to really listen to them, which in turn will make you grateful for being able to participate in a meaningful conversation. 3. Pitch In Are you the type person who jumps up after a meal and helps clear everyone’s plate off the table? Taking the initiative in running errands or tackling the hard jobs can lighten someone else’s load, which will make them thankful for the support. Pitching in can also make you feel good about yourself, so actively look for ways that you can help other people with their chores or challenges…without burning yourself out, of course. 4. Send Notes Many people are good at sending birthday or holiday cards. Some are even good at giving thank you cards to express gratitude for a favor, gift or kind word. Writing notes to recognize the little things is a great way to show appreciation to those who matter most in your life. Make sure to handwrite your note to give it that personal touch. 5. Pay It Forward Has a stranger ever done something nice for you? Did those good feelings motivate you to help someone else? When you’re in line at a restaurant or coffee shop, purchase a meal or beverage for the next person in line. This act of generosity will create gratitude in that person and hopefully inspire them to pay it forward to someone else. Giving to someone who can’t repay you can give you a tremendous feeling of satisfaction. 6. Say Sorry Perhaps there’s something in our DNA that makes us want to be right all the time, but many people have a hard time saying sorry. Even if you feel like you’ve been wronged, say you’re sorry to the other person. Offering an apology can help build a bridge in a relationship, and the other person might be grateful that you took the initiative in trying to resolve the disagreement. Since compromise is part of life, it’s better to apologize than hold a grudge. 7. Volunteer If you find a few spare hours in your schedule, consider volunteering at an animal shelter, food bank or mission. Serving others can be personally gratifying and can help alleviate stress while increasing health and happiness. Also, assisting others can make you feel more grateful for the good things in your life and give you a different perspective on the struggles that many people face each day. 8. Count Your Blessings One of the best ways to stay in a grateful state of mind is to take a few moments to write down the positive things that you’ve experienced that day. Keeping a “Blessings Journal” can be an enjoyable hobby as well as a great way to unwind after a stressful day. If you need regular reminders to write in your journal, there are many gratitude apps you can download on your phone. Perhaps the best part of journaling comes when you look back at earlier entries and see the many blessings you’ve enjoyed in your life. Jot down three things that you’re grateful for every day. Then experience the bliss that gratitude can bring. 9. Be Generous Although many people give to charities during the holidays, it’s important to remain generous year-round. Giving to others in need can produce feelings of fulfillment and happiness.² In addition to donating money, be generous with your time. Spending time with the sick or elderly can fill them with gratitude and a sense of hope. A small investment of your time can make a big difference in someone else’s life. 10. Remember the Basics In the busyness of life, it’s easy to slack on pleasantries. Always remember to say thank you to someone who has served or helped you. Many people feel like they work a thankless job, so hearing someone thank them can make their day. Also, remember to smile. Smiles can be contagious, so do your part in spreading the happiness wherever you go. Taking these simple steps can help you feel the power of gratitude during the holidays, and every day. At BrainMD, we’re dedicated to providing the highest quality supplements to improve your physical health and overall well-being. For more information about our full list of brain healthy supplements, please visit us at BrainMD. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This content is for informational purposes only. It is not meant to substitute for medical or healthcare advice from a physician, nor is it intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Consult your healthcare provider before beginning a new health regimen. References: 1. Kyeong, S., Kim, J., Kim, D. J., Kim, H. E., & Kim, J.-J. (2017). Effects of gratitude meditation on neural network functional connectivity and brain-heart coupling. Scientific Reports, 7, Article 5058. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-017-05451-6 2. Blanding, M. (2023, August 15). Why giving to others makes us happy: Giving to others is also good for the giver. Working Knowledge. Harvard Business School. https://hbswk.hbs.edu/item/why-giving-to-others-makes-us-happy
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